
I've been considering all the pros and cons of having just one child versus two lately to get accustomed to this very real possibility. At how many weeks did you have the m/c needing the d &c? Thankgod you're well past those days. The worst part was knowng for 8 days it had to be terminated but I couldn't get into hospital any earlier! I had the NIPT test done in week 11 instead of week 10 too so that pushed things back. The hardest part was needing to pee a zillion times a day and night, so it wouldn't surprise me if your fluid issues are bladder related as being small from my experience does affect things. Are you sleeping ok now? Is it uncomfortable? I started off on the small side of a size 8 before my son, and I felt stretched to the max!! Couldn't get comfortable at night and felt every wriggle and movement. Did they warn against any exercise and to rest up? I really hope it's bladder issues like you say. Omg!!! Oh you poor thing with the leaking and contractions. Thanks Steph for the feedback, I really hope it's the case for me with different symptoms! Wow 33wks! You're in the big league now. I never got any embryo ratings either! Xx My first transfer was a 4 day fresh embryo & second was a 5day blastocyst grown an extra day to day 6.

It's such a draining process! Also, with your embryo not being at hatching stage, I don't think either of mine were either? They never said to me they were.

I was so close to that point after 2 mc & never getting answers as to why for either & not knowing if it'd ever work. I completely understand how u feel about wanting to stop ivf. Fingers crossed it's just bladder issues because I'm a pretty small frame & the baby is very squished. I was told with the irritable uterus I may have an early labour but was really wanting to get to 34wks at least. I have an irritable uterus so I had to stop work at 30wks because I was getting regular contractions for blocks of time & now today I'm waiting to see if my waters have broken early because I've been leaking fluid on & off since 1am sat morn. I felt nothing the same both times & I think because I had a d&c after my mmc that my uterus lining would have been newer & different so it might be the same for you. As for symptoms wise with this transfer I really wouldn't worry if you feel different. That makes sense why I couldn't find you on here for a while!! Such a horrible experience with the trisomy 13 :(. I have just the one embryo left and it's gotten to the point where I'm just keen to get off this IVF train and start living my life again, whether we get a BFP or not, I'll be glad to stop the IVF process!! How many weeks are you now?! How are you feeling? I don't feel anything like I did with my son or the one with the trisomy. I do have that gut feeling though it hasn't implanted. well im glad to know you didn't have the pains in the 2ww.yet still got a BFP and healthy pregnancy. I found it interesting that this is the first time my embryo had not been hatching on the day of transfer. Only thing is this one and the last have had to survive two freeze and thaws and a biopsy in the zona. We got our last Frozen embies genetically tested. In the meantime Babycentre had resolved my login! Anyway im not too hopeful about this transfer. I had to create a new account, then the awful experience happened so I went off the app for a few months.

Omg thabks heaps Steph! How are you going? i had login issues to the app a few weeks before I found out it was trisomy 13. My shot was only 5000 units so it should be almost out by tomorrow morning., Anyway, did anyone NOT have cramps and still get a BFP? Did anyone get cramping with one pregnsncy but not another? I feel that from my own experience I got cramps with the two successful pregnancies so assume to not have them means BFN. I also POAS with the other fets to watch the line and see if it gets darker from day 1, which is did with my two pregnancies but got lighter with the BFN and now at 3 days no line at all! I was thinking my hcg shot was still in there but read it takes one day to lose 1000 units of hcg. Apparently it was 'about to hatch' whereas the others (including the BFN) were already hatched. Also the embryo was the first one to not be hatching when it went in. ive just done a fet 3 days ago and no cramping or pains whatsoever. 3rd was fet and I had bad pain one day on the other side (right hand side) whereas in the past it was on the left. I also had very strong cramping with this pregnsncy. 2nd was fet resulting in trisomy 13 & a surgical termination in week 13 (horrendous experience). 1st one was fresh 2 years ago resulting in my son! I had very strong implantation cramps, pulling sensations with my son. Hi everyone, does anyone have a success story of a BFP without implantation cramps after fet? ive just done my 4th transfer.
